Your on the "Down Low", seriously..????

This post is not about gay men open to the world or gay men not so open, but about men who claim heterosexual lives in the light and participate in homosexual activities in the dark.

For those who aren’t familiar:
“Down low” (definition) - men who have sex with other men as well as women and who do not identify as gay or bisexual

Although this hasn’t hit home personally for me I cant help but be a little paranoid when I meet someone new. There are so many men around me these days being kicked out of the closet for everyone to gawk at. Men I would have never even thought were cheaters, have been exposed by their wives and girlfriends. It’s scary to believe that I could think I’m in a meaningful relationship only to find out my man is not only cheating on me but cheating on me with a man. As if relationship aren’t hard as it is, we have to add this possible dilemma to the laundry list of things to watch for. Being the worrier that I am I can’t help but wonder what I would do if I found out that the man I was dating was having sex with men on the low.

So to help me feel like I’m not alone on this I have a couple of questions for you ladies, and gentlemen if you choose to answer.