Friendly Advice For Your Ass...

A guarded heart not only makes it hard for you to love, it can make it impossible to be loved.

Truth Behind: Growing up for me wasn't easy. I had to learn at an early age to harden my heart and let daily negativity roll off my back. That shit is damaging... No matter how hard I try to deny it.

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Friendly Advice For Your Ass....

If your man tells you to take your ex-boyfriend's number out your phone, do it with a smile.

Truth Behind: My boyfriend got a little irritated with me when I mistakenly sent a text to my ex telling him that I was thinking about him. Now I know what your thinking but hear me out. My ex-boyfriends name is right above my man's name in my address book and I just clicked on the wrong number to send the text to. What made matters worse, my ex has made it his mission to get back with me by calling every other day. None of this would have happened if I hadn't have fought my boyfriend about erasing my ex-boyfriend's numbers out my phone. Let's just say he's gotten more and more upset every time he sees my that my ex is calling me, so I'm regretting my rebellion right now. CURSE being a "STRONG" woman.

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Friendly Advice For Your Ass...

If a man is on top when you meet him, you'll be around to see him fall.

Truth Behind: For some reason every man I've dated in the past were doing good both financially and physically in the beginning, but towards the middle they would fall off a little. I'm not standing on a high horse here, because I have had my moments too, I'm just stating a fact. I don't know if I'm cursed or just plain bad luck, because after I became official with these men bad things would happen. And...they would fall, and fall HARD.

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Friendly Advice For Your Ass...

Girl, you ain't white, leave that white girl hustla alone!!!!!!

Truth Behind: A friend of mine was telling me about her wondering what a certain someone was packing in a certain spot. Now normally this wouldn't be a problem but, he is a known 'white girl hustla' a black man who ONLY dates and PLAYS white girls. I told her to forget about it. She'd have a better chance getting with a member of the KKK. Or maybe not.... lol

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